The Joy of Being Able to Help Someone

While double-majoring in advertising and public relations, I made a friend who’s now a well-known travel creator. I’ve always admired how passionately she lives, and though we don’t keep in touch often, I quietly cheer her on from afar. A few days ago, I saw her post on Instagram looking for a model to shoot in front of trumpet creepers, but it seemed she was struggling to find someone. I wanted to reach out but hesitated because of a prior commitment. Luckily, that plan got canceled the night before. While wondering what to do today, I saw she posted a model request again last night, so I mustered up the courage to contact her. The old me would never have done that, but lately, I’ve become quite bold and courageous.

 

She was so grateful and shared the shooting locations, which, as it turned out, were places I’d never been to. Feeling like I was embarking on a little adventure, I left home in high spirits and did my best to model among the blooming flowers. I moved a bit like a robot, but she directed my poses so well that we wrapped up the shoot smoothly. It was scorching hot, almost heatwave-level, but seeing my friend’s passionate energy after so long made me want to help even more, so I gave it my all. I hope my effort reached her, even just a little.

 

what a wonderful trumpet creepers!

 

I left home around 9:30 a.m., and the shoot wrapped up around 3:00 p.m. (Of course, we had lunch in between!) By the time I got to Gangnam Station, it was past 4:00 p.m. But my day wasn’t over yet. After the shoot, I headed straight to my husband’s company to help with their marketing tasks. I worked with someone in marketing to set up some basics, and by the time my husband and I left the office, it was past 9:00 p.m. (Yes, we had dinner in between too!)

 

On the way home, my husband said to me,

Honey, you worked so hard from morning till night. It feels like your energy is back!

 

Come to think of it, I’m busier now after quitting my job than I was before, but strangely, I don’t feel exhausted. Back then, my mind was more drained than my body. My efficiency was low, and I was always cautious when requests came my way. Instead of wanting to help others, I’d think, “Why bother when the company doesn’t even appreciate it?” and take a cynical stance. But things are different now. I’m rediscovering the joy and pride of helping others.

Knowing the happiness of being able to help someone—and having them appreciate it—made today so fulfilling.

 

Tomorrow’s another busy day, but resting well is also a big goal of mine, so I’ll try to take it a bit easier than today!

 

today's wendy!